Recently I was asked "Bianca, how do you do it? How have you managed to build an empire from the group up, that's grown into more than just a business, it's a brand. Whilst motivating & showing such love & passion to your followers, be present online more than enough to be noticed, raise a beautiful & happy family, a home, & always have a smile on your face! What's your formula Bianca?"

After a long pause, I replied "...babes, come to think of it. I don't know, I guess as Mums we just do....right?" We both laughed & move on, but the fact is she left me amazed, by the very thought of myself. 

I started to think, you know that deep introspective kind of thinking us mums, women & self employed thinking were so good at. Then I realised 

This is no 'overnight thing', I have been working on my empire, brand... dream continuously & subconsciously since 2009. 

I spend on average 65% of my day in #MumpreneurLand managing my social media platforms, sourcing content, to inspire, motivate, empower, bring knowledge & support to my followers just like you reading this right now, for free. 

I run not only a network that's main objective is to support Mumpreneurs, but I also host two sometimes three live networking events a week to create a platform for Mumpreneurs to learn, grow & develop their business woman journey.

Daily I Coach my clients who remind me daily, that being a Life & Business Coach is so rewarding, & I'm honoured to be their chosen Coach. They say I inspire them, the truth is.... they are my inspiration.  

Regularly I document my journey of mothehood in my Blog, where I share with mums all over the world, my real & honest perspective of my adventure, in hope that they will not only feel empowered, but most importantly, know that they are normal.   

Just like you, I think, think again, then rethink some more, about the next move in business, question my decision then question it again. Then get stressed with myself, shead a few tears, then go back to feeling on top of the world again. All in the space of hmmmm 5 minutes haha...

Just like you, I make millions of wrong moves, decisions & miss opportunities all because of fear.

Just like you I know as a Mumpreneur it's lonely at the top. I know that at times being self employed is like searching for water in the desert. I know that it's an overwhelming experience where you are pushed & challenged every minute of every day as you build your brand... & dream.

Just like you I have lost friends who thought I was to big for my boots when I bravely decided to follow my working dream.

Just like you I suffer from massive 'Mum guilt' because I have to regularly decide between responding to the children, or responding to a client, follower or my own needs all at the same time!

Just like you I have to ask myself questions, answer them, then contest them, in order to identify what really is the next best business move haha...

But you know what the saddest thing about it all is my lovely....

Just like you, I have never really stopped to think about all I do, & even give myself a little pat on the back for it. Why? WELL because it's just what we do right? & we always just make it happen.  

Because the truth is. Having said all that, daily there are a million more of amazing, rewarding, moments of pride, happiness, can't keep the smile off your face joy, inner joy that warms your heart joy that brings a sense of fulfillment & confidence. That make the very same people who probably laughed at you because they didn't understand why you decided to follow your dream. Now ask you how you did it. 

So for those of you reading this, & who follow me thinking "... blimey how does Bianca do it?" I want you to know this, i'm not amazing, together we are amazing. Because just like you my lovely, I'm walking the same path, experiencing the same punches this journey of Mumpreneur life has to throw. Yet just like you, I still haven't given up.

Why? Because this is what we do, & we are doing it brilliantly. 

Supporting, empowering, motivating, mums & Mumpreneurs is my life's calling, & I'm honoured to respond to the call. Remember my lovely, you are Amazing, & your doing a great job. So go ahead & give yourself a little pat on the back. You deserve it. 

From my ❤ to yours ❤

With just the smallest dash of self belief...

Make the decision today, to try something new, do something different, take a chance, step outside your comfort zone, start working on the dream you have been holding onto. Adopt a new way of thinking, allow yourself to focus only on the positives & start working on creating the life that you deserve.

You have the ability to change your life, make it better, be more fulfilled & happier. You can start that journey today. 

You just have to take control, make that stand, believe in yourself, attach yourself to your own strength, make the decision. That today is the day I will change my life, starting with simply changing your mindset. 

The change can only start with you, you are in control, you are capable, you are allowed to be happier, you deserve it.  With just the smallest dash of self belief, you my lovely will be unstoppable! Invest in yourself today.


First steps...

Remember... "Faith is taking the first step, even when you don't see the whole staircase." - Martin Luther King, Jr.

What is you 'Why'?

In my experience as a Business & Life Coach for Mumpreneurs, your "Why" is something that often changes, & that's ok! But it's important that one assesses & evaluates the evolution of their Business "Why". In order to identify why it has changed, & more importantly when the aim/goal has been reached. 

A quick assessment can be done in three simple steps, by asking yourself these focus questions...

❔ What is my Life or Business 'Why'?
❔ Why is this important to me?
❔ I will know, I have reached this when...?

Understanding your Mumpreneur motivation, doesn't require elaborate brainstorming, document writing or training. It's just requires your honesty. The best bit about being a Business Coach for Mumpreneurs, is that I get to share this journey of self development with my amazing clients. Supporting them to build empires far bigger than there minds first imagined. I keep them focused, hold them accountable, & am their biggest fan & cheerleader. 

Take time out today, to make yourself a cuppa, & reconnect with your Life goals & business "Why". It could possibly be the most productive task You have done for a while. 

Believe in yourself...

"If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing YOU can be." - Maya Angelou

Believe in yourself my lovely, & you will be unstoppable, oh & remember.  If you believe you can, then you can!